How to Know When You Need Extra Mental Health Care: My Journey Back to an IOP

Sometimes, managing mental health feels like a juggling act. No matter how much progress you’ve made, life can throw new challenges your way that make the usual tools and coping strategies feel inadequate. That’s when it might be time to consider extra support, like an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP).

I recently found myself in this situation. I’ve been dealing with anxiety for years, and while I’ve made strides, I realized I needed more help. After discussing it with my therapist, I decided to return to an IOP I had attended before. I wanted to review the materials in a group format and remind myself of the techniques I’d learned. It’s funny in a way—I felt anxiety about attending an anxiety group! But I knew it was the right step for me.

What Is an IOP?

An IOP is a structured mental health program that provides therapy and support in a group setting. It’s more intensive than regular therapy sessions but less demanding than inpatient care. You attend several sessions a week, often focusing on specific skills like managing anxiety, depression, or other challenges. It’s designed to help you develop practical tools while still living your daily life.

Signs You Might Need Extra Support

It’s not always easy to recognize when you need more help, but here are some signs that it might be time to consider an IOP or similar program:

  1. Your current strategies aren’t enough. If the tools and techniques you’ve been using don’t seem to work as well anymore, it might be time for a new approach.
  2. You feel stuck. Whether it’s anxiety, depression, or another issue, feeling like you’re going in circles can signal a need for extra support.
  3. Your mental health is impacting daily life. If your anxiety or other struggles make it hard to work, maintain relationships, or take care of yourself, more intensive care could help.
  4. You need a community. Sometimes, being around others who truly understand what you’re going through can make a world of difference.

My First Night Back

Walking into the first IOP session felt uncomfortable. Growth and healing usually are. But I quickly realized how helpful it is to be in a group with others who get it. Despite being strangers, the people in the group understand my struggles better than anyone else, even my husband of 15 years. That’s not a knock against him—it’s just that living with anxiety is something you can’t fully grasp unless you’ve experienced it.

In just one session, I learned so much. Revisiting these tools in a group setting reminded me that I’m not alone. I left feeling hopeful and motivated, even though I know the process will stretch me.

Why IOP Works

An IOP creates a space where you can be honest, vulnerable, and supported. You’re surrounded by people who know the fight, and that shared understanding is powerful. The program also gives structure to the healing process, offering strategies and techniques you can put into practice immediately.

Moving Forward

I’m committed to getting through this IOP. It won’t be easy, but I know it’s worth it. Growth and healing aren’t supposed to be comfortable—they’re about pushing past your limits and finding strength you didn’t know you had.

If you’re feeling like you need more support, don’t hesitate to talk to your therapist about options like an IOP. It’s a step toward taking care of yourself and finding the tools you need to thrive.

If you or someone you know is in crisis, please reach out to a mental health professional or crisis helpline immediately. There is help available, and you don’t have to navigate this journey alone.

Emergency: Call 911

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255

Online Chat: suicidepreventionlifeline.org

Leave a comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *